There was no incense in Yi Hui when we were eating. Recently, Zhou Zheng was not at home, and Yang Qitai and his wife had to work very busy. It has been a month or two since they came back. Grandparents are extremely rare for their two grandchildren, and they have a hand in their legs to eat. Grandpa is also very concerned about school things and talks with his son-in-law about education now. It is fun to eat a meal.
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However, it is still necessary to talk about the emotional problems of the second daughter. It is impossible for Yi parents to deny it. They have always been more lenient with their children and have strict requirements for education. However, the second daughter is also given freedom in lifelong events, and so is the eldest daughter. Now the problem is that things will not be easy if the two adults are absent and the eldest daughter resolutely opposes it.
"Anyway, I don’t agree with age difference is too big before also engaged, who knows what happened! The Wangs are not a good family either, "Yi Huifen said excitedly." Looking at the second sister is still indifferent and annoyed. Now it is good to get married, but what if you choose the wrong person for the big event?
"Elder sister said that I know that I don’t care if the Wangs break again. We all agreed to settle down in the county seat. Isn’t Beckham like this now?" I’ll go! What’s wrong with her? I’m teasing my baby Yang Xiaobei, saying inexplicably, is this a positive model or a negative textbook?
"Ahem" hasn’t been said for a long time. Grandpa said something. "Actually, I’m ten years older than your mother!"
Uh ….. Yi Hui Finn dumb fire with her for a long time mean to map their parents? "I didn’t mean anything, I just …" She explained awkwardly, but the more she said it, the more embarrassed she became.
I can’t blame her parents’ age, of course she knows, but how can things be compared in those days? She never thought about it either. Grandpa smiled and said, "I don’t blame you. I mean, it’s actually not a problem when you’re old. You just have to be right."
Huh? Why are you arguing and arguing, even telling your grandparents’ privacy? Yang Xiaobei has never heard of this curiosity. Look around. Look around. When you get older, the difference of one year old is not obvious. Besides, my grandfather’s generation has never suffered, but my grandmother is full of wind and frost. You can’t see that they are ten years apart.
In those days, people usually decided to get married when they were teenagers, and the conditions were good. How could it be so different? Grandpa saw their doubts, and he didn’t talk to his children about it. After all, it’s not a glorious thing, but now the focus of the second daughter’s affairs is here, and he doesn’t mind taking it out and saying it’s old! What else can’t you say?
"I actually have a wife in front of your father in the second room." Grandma said more calmly that it wasn’t that she didn’t say that when she was exercising before, she covered her up and didn’t come. What if the children were all young and didn’t understand?
What rice? Mother is the steproom? Father is a second marriage? Yi Huifen was shocked just now. She never thought that such a big secret would be blown up from her second sister. "It’s not a secret, but you didn’t tell you when you were young." Grandma said, "When I married, your father was 2 years old and ten years older than me!"
It turns out that my grandfather was married to his family early when he was young, but it’s a pity that the "former grandmother" was ill and didn’t get pregnant. Yi’s family is big and has an only child (Yi Zhi is a cousin). Naturally, it can’t go like this. At that time, the bad habit of concubinage was abolished. It seems that there is an ending to go.
The wife is all right except that she can’t get pregnant. The young couple took the case of Qi Mei. The girl was also from a family. The relationship between them was very good. Yi Jia was considered as benevolence and righteousness. After waiting for seven years, I still didn’t hear from her family before I went to discuss it.
It was a shame at that time. What happened in seven years was in line with the conditions of "seven outings". After changing one’s family, the wife could be divorced, which made the woman’s family look down. However, discussing with her in-laws to invite the young lady to the church was a little bit of a face-saving. Here, grandpa has nothing to do, even if he has feelings, it is a heavy mission to inherit the family, and their personal feelings are so insignificant in front of these.
Later, Yi’s family decided that the steproom was her grandmother. Her education was not high and she could barely read. Yi’s family saw that her greatest advantage was that she was in good health and had a good baby. Grandma was pregnant in the first year when she entered the door, and then she gave birth to six girls out of control.
"What about … my ex-grandmother?" Yang Xiaobei was dumbfounded. It was hard for her to imagine that a kind-hearted grandmother would do such a cruel thing as beating a mandarin duck! In fact, she doesn’t understand that everything is floating clouds in the face of family inheritance. Maybe Grandma is also satisfied with her ex-wife, but even Grandpa can compromise in the face of family interests.
"alas! She used to be in poor health … and died of depression a long time ago when she came home. "Now my grandfather is very cool, but when I was young, I was depressed and miserable. It seems that just yesterday, after that, he didn’t take care of the family and gave up all day. He was immersed in his own world. In an unguarded moment, the children were old and even the two girls had lovers …
Gee, it’s another sacrifice in feudal society, but the result is still normal to later generations. After all, no one in rural areas will maintain a childless marriage ―― after all, the purpose of marriage is to reproduce, just like Sister Wang and Tan’s family, even if you adopt a self-deception, then grandpa could choose to divorce, and his wife almost collapsed because of heavy pressure, which would make her feel better …
Grandma and grandpa are married and have little wives. After she got married, she served her in-laws, gave birth to children, and took good care of grandpa. The family was divided into fields and fields by sports waves. All the hard-working housewives never complained. They may have loved each other before, but they have long been like relatives. But living like this does not mean that she has no regrets.
Two people who have regrets in their hearts have the same tacit understanding in their female marriage. There is nothing better than being with their loved ones. After the ups and downs, it is enough for the couple to hope that their children will be happy.
With this idea, the eldest son and his daughter-in-law are seeing each other on a blind date, and Meimei and Er have taken a fancy to someone themselves. Although they are not satisfied, they have no objection to Huifen, too. Isn’t it great that she has taken a fancy to Kai Tai herself? There is also Kai Tai’s good sex to protect her temper.
But perhaps Huifen herself was so smooth that she had forgotten what happened when she was happy. Grandpa didn’t want to say that her daughter changed her mind because she told her story to let her know-what is the most important thing in marriage?
Maybe it’s because the amount of information is too large. Maybe it’s a blow. Yi Huifen opened her mouth and couldn’t say anything. Yang Qitai gently took her hand and said, "My parents are very reasonable. Age, experience and family circumstances are not a problem. It’s enough for them to feel good and really love each other."
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When talking about marriage, people often consider the family financial resources, how many brothers there are in the family, how much dowry will be paid on a few acres of land, what kind of bride price will be prepared … The second is the follow-up development of looks such as height and income … The overall orientation is 360 degrees, but the most important point is often ignored-feelings.
Nowadays, talking about feelings in rural areas (including most of the latter) will be spurned by people. What is that? Can I eat it? The purpose of marriage is to have a wife and children, and women are given the role of serving their parents-in-law like grandma, having children and managing the family inside and outside. This is fucked, but it has been so unfair for thousands of years, and even women in it think it is normal, such as grandma and mom.
The difference is that my mother is very happy, she loves him, and Yang Qitai has the conditions to love her family, but her second aunt doesn’t ask much. She just likes someone who is much older than herself and has had an engagement.
Yi Huifen finally realized that she was extremely blushing and said to her second sister, "I’m sorry … I’m too anxious." "No, I don’t blame you, you’re also good." Yi Huixiang generously said that she was happy! Finally, no one objected!
However, she was happy a little early, and the second brother didn’t know about it, and she still had to listen to their opinions … The contradiction was solved. Grandma said, "Dacheng seems to be a good kid in recent years. He seems to be honest and capable. You are sure that we don’t object, but he has to come by himself to make things clear face to face." After thinking about it, he said, "Just at the end of the month, your brother and all of them will come back and let him come."
It’s not easy to marry a wife! Wang Dacheng, it’s going to be a five-to-six-to-six rhythm, but Yang Xiaobei believes that his tough nerves will stand the test. Think about the ups and downs that Zhou Zheng went through when he pursued himself. She has no sympathy at all. Come on! I like you, SAO Nian!
Of course, my second uncle’s mood is not so beautiful after knowing that his sister was cheated by his brother. This poor old Wang Tong said that he had done a good job and set a list of humiliating conditions for the country to be squeezed, but these were naturally abolished after marriage-he just tried his sincerity and could not squeeze his brother-in-law’s generation. Can’t he be blamed to death by his second sister?
Yi Huixiang said that she wouldn’t complain and just ignore it. How stupid is she to take it seriously?
Big JIU is very much in favor of Wang Dacheng being a good soldier. If he loses, he loses because of his low education and is dragged down by his family. Otherwise, they will all be assigned to other jobs at that time, but it is not bad now. When he asked Dacheng to work for his younger brother, he wanted to help him. Unexpectedly, he did a very good job.
For veterans like Big Uncle, there is a natural bias. Even if my sister looks at it, it means that my second sister has a good eye-rest assured after being trained in the army melting pot! So stumbling, Wang Dacheng chasing his wife all the way, the future is bumpy, but visible light
Yang Xiaobei, who hasn’t talked about it yet, has met an annoying thing again.
She sat behind the desk of the clinic, propping up Ba and looking at the opposite side with a headache. What happened to Master Liao recently? Over and over again, someone finds herself as a matchmaker. Does she look like a grandmother?
Liao Lord smiled enthusiastically "Beckham! Auntie knows that you are a warm-hearted person, so please take care of it when you are married. You can have a snack! "
Yang Xiaobei secretly turned a supercilious look in his heart. Why? Nothing to do with her. How can we find her head? However, the blind date man is working with the social worker, so she came here. She is also very busy, isn’t she?
Master Liao’s most eager job is not the women’s Federation, but matchmaking. There is a girl in her hand who took a fancy to a young man in the same village at home. She thought about whether the door or the talents are suitable at home, so she took this job. Now this cooperative member is very popular. Master Liao found Yang Xiaobei after thinking that she might not be sure when she came forward.
This is not Beckham’s man, but Yang’s family, the general manager of Hopewell, also has shares in Hopewell. People will always give him some face, but what does this have to do with Yang? Looking at Master Liao, she felt her head hurt more. She must have missed Zhou Zheng last night and didn’t sleep well.
"Liao master this … I come forward is not good? Now we all pay attention to the freedom of marriage and love, so we can’t mix in the middle! " Yang Xiaobei euphemistically said, "Look at you! I don’t know this yet! " Master Liao patted his thigh and said excitedly, "Then there must be an object for freedom of marriage and love!"
She said to Yang Xiaobei earnestly, "Beckbei, you can’t treat us as matchmakers in the old society who take money to do things. Now the children have gone their separate ways and don’t even work with the production team. This big girl has to find someone to match the bridge, right?" After drinking a sip of tea from Yang Xiaobei, he continued, "What we have to do is to be an introducer and let them know each other. Isn’t it a good marriage?"
In order to achieve social harmony and unify the great idea of prenatal and postnatal care, we grassroots women cadres need love and patience to promote the marriage and love of unmarried young people! Liao Zhu’s heart is full of lofty ideals. Yang Xiaobei was almost brainwashed and quickly came back. "Wait … it’s not necessarily me!" She has never done anything like this, so it’s embarrassing to say.
"Beckham …" Here we go again! Master Liao simply dragged the chair over and took Yang Xiaobei’s hand and said, "Auntie, tell you the truth, you are my favorite person. Now Auntie is old and many things are beyond her power. Now she plans to retire. Wow, the young people in our village can rely on you!"
Oh, my god! Yang Xiaobei is not a headache now, it’s just a horror. Is she a matchmaker with such a strange skeleton? Why didn’t she find out after living for two generations?
Master Liao also has her own difficulties. It is one thing to be old. More and more, she feels that she is not good enough to win this job. When she came, she had a primary school culture. At that time, she was chosen because she had a good voice in driving ducks. Now she doesn’t sing model operas, and she has higher requirements for women’s federations. Don’t say that she can fall asleep every time she goes to town meetings!
What’s the latest policy, what’s the statistical table … It’s not a good idea to say that it’s difficult at home, and it’s not a good idea for my granddaughter to help me get it. Although she loves her job, she clearly knows that it is time to retire.
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